Therapy for Ethical Non-Monogamy & Polyamory
Affirmative care for couples, throuples, & polycules
Online Across California
Helping people thrive in diverse relational dynamics, empowering connection, understanding, and emotional safety
You Live in a World That Doesn't Understand Your Love
You live in a society that often dismisses, misunderstands, or outright sanctions the validity of your love and relationships. You’ve likely encountered the sting of judgment, the weight of invisibility, or the pressure to conform to traditional models of connection that don’t align with your authentic self. These societal norms may have left you feeling isolated, navigating a world that refuses to see the beauty, complexity, and intentionality behind your relationships.
But your love is valid, and your experiences are real. Choosing to love openly, authentically, and ethically takes incredible courage and intentionality. It requires deep communication, radical honesty, and the willingness to challenge assumptions about what love and connection should look like. It also means navigating complex emotions—jealousy, compersion, fear, and joy—and finding balance between your needs, your partners' needs, and the expectations of a world that often doesn’t understand.
Here, you will find a space that sees you, affirms you, and celebrates the strength it takes to live your truth. This is a place to process the unique joys and challenges of non-monogamy, to explore your identity without fear of judgment, and to create the relationships you deserve—relationships built on trust, respect, and authenticity. Your love stories are powerful, and they deserve a space where they can flourish.
Sound familiar?
“My partner wants to open our relationship, I feel hesitant”
“we want to discuss what opening would look like”
“My relationships feel forced & empty.”
Been there. I see you.
You’re ready to:
Explore and define ethical non-monogamy for you and your partner(s).
Develop communication skills to navigate complex emotions and boundaries.
Strengthen trust and connection within your relationships.
Navigate societal stigma and build resilience in the face of judgment.
Foster self-awareness to better understand your needs, triggers, and desires.
Work through past relationship challenges and cultivate healing.
Address feelings of jealousy to cultivate compersion and find joy in your partner’s connections and happiness.
Getting support to navigate diverse relationships can happen with online therapy.
How it works:
You’ve chosen a path of intentionality, openness, and authenticity—one that often requires courage in a world that doesn’t always understand. You might be managing multiple relationships, negotiating boundaries, or processing emotions like jealousy and compersion, all while seeking deeper connection and balance.
Online therapy is here to meet you where you are—literally and emotionally. Whether you’re exploring this relationship style on your own, as a couple, or with multiple partners, therapy offers a safe, confidential space to address your challenges and celebrate your wins. It’s a place to unpack societal judgment, navigate communication hurdles, and create agreements that align with your values and everyone’s well-being.
Through a psychodynamic lens, we’ll also explore the deeper layers of your experiences—how past relationships, attachment styles, and early life dynamics might influence the way you connect and communicate today. By understanding these underlying patterns, we can help you cultivate greater self-awareness, heal from past wounds, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships in the present.
Through virtual sessions, you’ll have the flexibility to include everyone involved, no matter their location or schedule. You’ll work with a therapist who understands and affirms your lifestyle, providing guidance tailored to your unique dynamics. Together, we’ll focus on fostering trust, enhancing communication, and strengthening the connections that matter most to you—so you can thrive in your relationships and in your life.